I realized the on way to make it so that both my parents don't come to my wedding is if I marry a black woman. My father is undeniably racist and my mother thinks gays are gross... I hate my parents sometimes. I mean, they make it so I don't have many types of mates to choose from. They knocked off half my choices with the "no gays" and who knows if I'll fall in love with a colored fellow! Ugh! FRUSTRATING.